Starting the WAHM Life

The last time I posted here, I was still pregnant and working in the office.

Fast forward months later… and here I am, an actual work-at-home mom with an almost 2-month-old baby.

So, how did I get started with my work from home journey?

At seven months pregnant, I was still contemplating on whether to give up my office job or not. After all, I was an employee there for more than five years and I was still happy with what I was doing.


However, when I imagined leaving my baby with a nanny, my mind changed. I just can’t fathom the idea of leaving my child behind for hours. When my daughter finally arrived, I stuck to this decision all the more.

Making the decision to be a work-at-home mom was not easy at all. I had a good job and shifting to a freelance career was very risky. For all I know, I might not get a job at all. Competition in the freelancing world is very stiff these days.

So, two months before I gave birth, when I was already on maternity leave, I started looking for prospects.

The first client I had was referred by a LinkedIn contact who was already a very successful freelancer. I was hired as a virtual assistant/writer, however, I decided to move on to another job after three weeks as I felt unfit for the tasks at hand.

After several other interviews, some of which were unsuccessful, I decided to contact my former clients.

I have mentioned in my other blog posts that I used to work at home (that was around five years ago) before I decided to go back to an office-based job.

So I started going through my emails and contacted my former clients, sending them proposals.

Luckily, one of them was looking for someone with my skillsets and decided to hire me for a full-time job. She understood that I was going to have a baby and we made arrangements of me going part-time for a while before gradually going back full-time when I am already settled.

And that’s how I started my work-at-home journey. I’m currently working part-time, and at the same, taking care of my newborn full-time. It’s not that easy, but with a supportive husband, I’m able to survive the daily challenges of a work-at-home mom.

More of this on my next post.


Online Jobs for the Stay-at-Home Mom


When you’re a mom, there is always the dilemma on whether to focus on your career or to take care of the kids. I’m not saying that it can’t be done simultaneously, but if you’re a mom with young kids, it tends to get a little challenging, especially if you’re constantly worrying about who the next baby sitter is.

As a soon-to-be mom, I can’t help getting worried whenever my colleagues at work mention their troubles with hiring babysitters. A lot of times, they are forced to get absent from work when the babysitter suddenly leaves. Or if the kids get sick. Or have a school event.

Now, I love my job very much and I focus all my efforts in doing the best I can, but when I think about the near future, I cannot help thinking I will be better off as a stay-at-home mom. With my husband being away at work for days on end, I have to be there for my kid.

But… there’s always the issue of finances. Of course, once you decide to quit work and be a stay-a-home mom, your family’s source of income will be cut in half – or totally depleted. Good if you can afford it. But how about moms like me who can’t afford it?

If you are in a similar situation, fear not! The good thing about technology is that it allowed businesses to offer telecommuting jobs for people like us. Freelancing seems to have taken the world by storm.

In a study conducted by the Freelancers Union, in partnership with Upwork, freelancers now make up 35% of the workforce in the United States. Collectively, they have earned $1 trillion in 2016. According to the study, “the freelance workforce grew from 53 million in 2014 to 55 million in 2016.”

That’s just in the United States alone. Freelance workers are also on the rise in different parts of the world. In Upwork, you will not only see clients and freelancers from the United States – the United Kingdom, India, and the Philippines also make up a large percentage of freelance job providers and workers.

I’ve known a lot of moms who have shifted to doing home based jobs, and they are doing very well. In fact, most of them are earning more from their home based jobs than from their former office jobs. Although the downside is that freelancing doesn’t have the usual benefits we get from having a full-time office job, being able to be there for your kids, escaping traffic, and having a more flexible work schedule is a bigger benefit.

So, what are the typical online jobs that you can take on if you are a stay-at-home mom? Here are a few examples of online jobs I have tried before. Please don’t be limited by this very short list. If you have other skills that you can offer, you can always find a job that would fit you perfectly.

1. Virtual Assistant

A virtual assistant or VA is someone who provides administrative, technical, or social assistance to a client. My job as a virtual assistant included managing the client’s websites, blogs, and social media sites, regulating incoming and outgoing emails, managing projects for other staff working for the client, writing web content, and content syndication.

2. Transcriptionist

Basically, transcription is transforming speech into written word. In transcription, you will be listening to podcasts, webinars, calls, meetings, even TV shows and movies. This job requires good listening and typing skills. Good grammar is essential as well.

There are several types of transcription – medical, business/financial, entertainment, and general transcription.

3. SEO Specialist

According to, SEO or Search Engine Optimization “helps people find products and information on search engines like Google and Bing. An SEO specialist, then, researches and analyzes the trends and best practices online to develop and implement strategies that improve search results. The overall goal is to increase the level of traffic to a website by using keywords and keyword topics to improve the user experience and meet search engine guidelines.”

As an SEO specialist, I was tasked to promote the client’s website through SEO. I blogged, commented in forums, connected with webmasters in the same niche to promote our products, searched for keywords that scored high in the search engines, and did Google analytics to determine how the websites are doing.

4. Online Teacher

Teaching English as Second Language (ESL) is very popular. There are several schools that are located in Japan, Korea, and China who are offering online teaching. Basically, you will be conducting the session via Skype or any other platform that allows video calls. Usually, each session lasts for 30 minutes to one hour. You will be teaching grammar, vocabulary, speaking English, and sometimes writing.

5. Blogger

Several stay-at-home moms have become very successful as bloggers. You can blog about anything. There is a big community of mom bloggers who basically share their day-to-day life taking care of their kids and different mom hacks they’ve discovered along the way.

Okay, so now that you have an idea of what types of jobs you can try in the online freelancing world, where would you find jobs that fit your skillsets?

Here are websites where I got some of my freelancing gigs.

1. Upwork

Upwork is one of the largest, if not the largest, platform for online jobs. Based in Sillicon Valley, it used to be known as Elance-oDesk. To get a job in Upwork, you have to submit great cover letters because you have to bid for every job. Just take note that Upwork gets 20% of your total pay.

2. is a jobs platform for Asians. I rarely find online jobs being posted here, but I included it in my list because this is where I got my first freelance writing gig in 2006.

3. Grow My Team

This is an Australian-based company who hire remote workers. They have both full-time and part-time gigs. Some examples of the talents they are hiring are marketing managers, virtual assistants, transcriptionists, and graphic designers. I recently landed a transcription gig here in the market research industry.

4. Morningside Partners/ASC Services

This company hires transcriptionists and translators for political, broadcast, financial, and general business content. Among their clients are CNN, ABC, Bloomberg, and Fox News. This is where I got my first transcription gig around six years ago. Payment is based on how many kilobytes (KB) of words you typed.

5. LinkedIn

I’ve had a LinkedIn profile for many years, but I only recently discovered that I can actually use this platform to find job prospects. In the past year, I have received numerous job invitations from LinkedIn. You can also use this platform – just make sure you keep it updated. It also doesn’t hurt to connect with people in your industry and be active in communities and groups.

All set to take the plunge? I know it’s easier said than done – and always, the hardest part is getting started.

If you are unsure where to start at this point, just spend a bit of time building your profile or resume. You can also visit the sites I mentioned and try applying or pitching yourself. It might take a while to get your first gig (competition is very high these days), but you will definitely get there. It just takes time and patience. Before you know it, you will be enjoying your flexible hours as a stay-at-home mom slash freelancer.

5 Valuable Tips I Learned from Freelancing

When I started out as an online freelancer in 2006, I felt like I was on cloud nine with my newfound freedom. In my mind, I have now become my own boss. No one could ever tell me what to do again.

But I was wrong. Months into my freelancing stint, I realized that, yes, freelancing gives me the flexibility of time and place to work, but I was still working. Just like my old office job, I still had deadlines.

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Being a freelancer doesn’t mean you can do anything. You might have gotten rid of your boss, but you gained a client. Your client may not be like your annoying micromanaging boss, but their expectations are high – in fact, most of the time, higher than what your old boss expects you to do.

Once you become a freelancer, you are on your own. You are now your own brand. Anything you do or do not do will affect your brand. And it will make or break your career.

If you are new to freelancing, here are some tips I learned that may help you with your journey:

1. Don’t accept too many jobs that you can’t handle

Freelancing gives you the opportunity to earn much, much more than you used to earn from your office days. This I realized during the early days of my freelancing career. After my first client, I began receiving offers which paid more than the first one. I was overwhelmed… and became a little greedy. I took the opportunity to earn more. When I computed the time I needed to do the required tasks, I was left with only a few hours of rest everyday. There was no time to linger and relax. Still, I told myself, opportunities like this come only once. I can sacrifice a few of my sleeping hours.

Months after, everything boomeranged on me. Yes, I had the opportunity to earn more money – but I was tired and burned out. I lost my focus and passion for work. My quality suffered and I started losing my clients.

2. Learn the art of time management

One thing I wished I possessed during my early freelancing career is the art of time management. In fact, my lack of skills in this area is one of the main reasons of my failure. I didn’t set clear goals and timelines at the time. I was inefficient. I didn’t know what to prioritize. If I knew how to manage my time well, I could have survived. It’s a hard lesson to learn but I learned it very well.

3. Discipline yourself

Discipline goes hand-in-hand with time management. Even if I set a schedule to do a certain task, if I don’t have the discipline to do it on that specific time frame, I will never finish it.

That’s practically what happened to me. Sometimes, even if I know that I was already swamped, I would reason to myself that I needed a bit of time to relax. I would start going to Facebook or I would work on my personal blog instead of doing an important task that I need to finish. At the end of the day, when the time comes for me to take my much needed rest, I would still be working on the task that I was supposed to have finished long ago if I didn’t waste my time chatting on Facebook.

4. Set daily goals and follow through

If your client doesn’t have daily goals set for you, try setting them yourself. It helps with productivity. It helps you know which task you should prioritize. Ever experienced that pride in yourself whenever you cross out a certain task in your list? Whenever I was able to do that, I had this renewed hope that I will be finishing soon. It gives me a sense of achievement and fulfillment. It inspires me to get more things done. If I don’t set my daily goals as a guide, I am like a lost sheep running around, not knowing what to do.

5. Respect your deadlines

For a client, deadlines are very important. That’s exactly why they hired you – so that you can help them meet their deadlines. Now, some clients are very nice and would give you extensions from time to time. But remember that if you’re always asking for extensions, in the long run, your clients will lose their trust in you.

I had struggled with meeting deadlines when I was going through the burnout stage. My focus was gone. And because I have to juggle three different jobs, I didn’t know what to prioritize. I felt like I was not providing quality service anymore. That’s when I decided I needed to take a break from freelancing.


Freelancing is often compared to having a vacation while working. Ever seen those pictures of people working on the beach or somewhere very relaxing? That’s what often comes to mind when people think about freelancing. Some don’t even consider it as a real job. But when you’re a freelancer, you know this is not true. Yes,  you get to work anywhere you want, and sometimes, anytime you want, but it doesn’t remove the fact that you are still working. You are expected to follow a very high standard, which means, you have to work very hard as well.

Freelancing requires hard work, dedication, discipline, and commitment – just like any other job.